The Soulful Atom

Reflecting over life through weird, crazy, ever changing, euphoric, absurd, confused and at times impartial lenses -a journey of curiosity and questions with my two alter egos.. as I try to fall out of the stagnation of instability.. or the desperate attempt to remain..

The reason and the realisation

A friend's recent status update on Facebook (have to mention the source) was "is it necessary to get a heart break to realise what is love???????"

Which made wonder if is it really a heart break which makes us realise what love is..
And the answer i found was no. I guess what a heart break does is just make us understand our capacity to love. Many times when people go through a heart break say either of the following things:
1) Why ME!! ALWAYS!! :(
2) He/she was a bitch / a*sehole
3) Now im never gonna love again
4) I'll show all these gals/guys what i am! (n start of ruining other people's life)

And the likes.

There are also some people who would be hurt, for a few days shall remain in the stupor, but later they will move on and love someone else maybe not with the same intensity but nonetheless truly..

Some people would completely move on and fall in love all over again with someone new..

But some rare few people, would continue loving the same person, no matter what..
Irrespective of all the hurt their "love" has inflicted..
They would continue loving them with all they have forever, they would refuse to get involved with anyone else, saying they can't.. And they would truly love.. The same person, who never looks back even once, in hope that they would return.. Some times not even hoping for anything!!

So, I believe, a heart break only helps you realise the capacity you have to love..
Well thats all i could think of! :)

4 comments:

Cynics Twist said...
March 19, 2010 at 10:48 PM  

I'd rather move on as opposed to clinging on to memories and living in the past I suppose :)

The Atom said...
March 19, 2010 at 10:52 PM  

sure! :P :D ;)
but some times its not really clinging to memories.. but anyway.. there a very thin line in between.. later! :)

Cynics Twist said...
March 19, 2010 at 10:54 PM  

I guess I agree - someone has said the fire of your first love always burns with a slow flame...perhaps pointing to the think line you mention.

Dr.Akik said...
April 1, 2010 at 2:59 PM  

the last type though rare does exist for sure.

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