The Soulful Atom

A lie, or maybe just a hidden thing (technically not a lie but potentially yes), when spoken by one.. or (hiding) when a part of one's nature.. does it remain just a part of that person or does it start eating into the relationship and become a part of both?
At times even a comfortable part.. but it is poisonous.. needs to be nipped in the bud..

Now what about people who think hiding isn't lying? I believe if the hidden thing is something that has the potential to cause pain to the other person, then it definitely IS a lie. Or maybe when its found out its a lie..

No matter what, lying/hiding implicates a relationship like nothing else does. It makes sure the relationship is not pure down to the lowest level, cause some of it is based on lies.. and should the lie come out in the open, things will change.. drastically.. and if they don't it either means the relationship is very strong OR both are least concerned about the other or his life.

But the lie becomes a part of us.. an appendage which is not required, and hence should be cut off, burned off by bringing it to life.. not waiting for someone to find out, but to out it yourself! cause there is only place for two people in a relationship, not for a lie..